Discernment
It starts with prayer
Taking time in quiet, even a few minutes each day, helps you tune in to God’s voice in your heart.
It’s not about pressure
Discernment is a process, not a one-time decision. It’s okay to take your time.
You don’t have to figure it out alone
Spiritual direction or talking with a Sister can be a huge support.
Peace is a big clue
Often, God speaks through what gives us deep peace and joy—not just what feels “easy.”
God meets you where you are
There’s no “perfect” place to begin. Just start from wherever you are today.
Learning. Searching. Discerning.
What is Discernment?
Discernment is simply the process of listening closely to God and paying attention to how He might be inviting you to live your life. It’s not about having all the answers—it’s about being open, curious, and willing to take that next small step toward what brings peace and a sense of purpose. Whether you’re wondering about religious life, considering a career path, or trying to understand your gifts, discernment is a journey—and you don’t have to walk it alone.
Make space for quiet
Try setting aside time each day for prayer, journaling, or simply being still. Ask God honestly: “What do You desire for my life?”
Talk with someone you trust
A friend, campus minister, or sister can help you process what you’re feeling. Sometimes saying it out loud brings clarity.
Connect with the IHM Sisters
We’re here to listen, walk with you, and share what it’s really like to live this life of joyful service. You don’t need to have it all figured out to reach out.
Visit and experience
Come to a retreat, vocation event, or simply spend time with the Sisters. Sometimes God speaks most clearly when you step into the space you're wondering about.
Be patient with yourself
God works in seasons. Every question, doubt, and moment of peace has a purpose in your journey. Whatever you're feeling in the moment, you're not alone. We're praying for you.
Getting Started
Suggestions for Discernment
If something in your heart is stirring—even just a little—it’s worth exploring. Discernment isn’t about being “sure” right away. It’s about being brave enough to stay curious and let God lead, one step at a time.
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Here are some gentle ways to keep walking forward:
Start Your Journey
Discerning with the IHMs
We are delighted to enter into mutual discernment with those who meet the following requirements and have a desire to learn, serve, grow in prayer, and share a common life.
Single (never married, or divorced with an annulment)
18-35 years old
Catholic
In good health
Female
Legal Status in the USA or Peru
